How to Look After Yourself Emotionally While Navigating Relationships

Navigating relationships in our modern society can be challenging at times. Yet, when you know that you’re having a bit of a difficult time or you have things to work through, it can seem a lot harder. Add to the mix meeting the wrong types of people or feeling unhappy in yourself during the process, and it can be overwhelming. This is why you need to look after yourself emotionally throughout it all. Here’s how you can do it.

Understand Your Needs

To begin with, you need to make sure that you know what you need emotionally. Knowing exactly what you want and need in a relationship, and from a partner, will help you to look for it. If you don’t know what makes you happy or what the ideal relationship dynamic is for you, it can be hard for you to find it. This might mean you’re not happy in relationships until you identify it.

Practice Self-Care

It’s also important to ensure that you’re taking care of your mind and body. Trying to understand and support your emotions in relationships can feel quite deep at times. Practicing self-care can help to support this. From running a bath to journaling to trying out delta 8 carts, looking to prioritize your mental wellbeing and relaxation is important here. That way, you’ll be able to feel at peace in yourself and in the best possible position to help regulate your emotions more effectively.

Set Boundaries

But at the same time, you also need to ensure that you know what your boundaries are in relationships. Our relationship patterns can begin from our childhood, but you can actively look to change what you expect at any time. Deciding how you want to be treated and what you want from a relationship is key. You can then reinforce your boundaries to ensure you’re able to get it.

Communicate Openly

Alongside that, you also need to ensure that you’re communicating openly with your partner. Healthy communication in relationships is always going to be key. As you’re starting to navigate a new relationship or even take good care of yourself during an existing one, open communication is going to help you to do this. It helps you to ensure both of your needs and boundaries are respected, along with confirming that you’re on the same page. Communicating how you feel and what you need will also help your partner to support you emotionally too.

Go At Your Own Pace

Finally, you have to make sure that you’re doing everything at your own pace. It doesn’t matter if it’s slower than others. Ultimately, as you’re looking to navigate a new relationship, you need to feel comfortable. It can be hard to open up and let someone in, and that’s okay. It can take time, and respecting the pace you need to go at here is key. That way, you can deal with things as they come up. Then, as you’re communicating and working on your needs, you know that you’ll be able to welcome in more love in the right way.

Paige Bond

Paige Bond is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and loves educating people about relationships through being the host of the Stubborn Love podcast. She specializes in helping folks tackle relationship anxiety, strengthen their relationships, and navigate non-monogamy.

She is also the founder of Sweet Love Counseling providing therapy in CO, FL, SC, and VT. Using tools like Accelerated Resolution Therapy and Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy, Paige helps you create long-term healing in a short amount of time by going beyond just talk therapy.

https://www.paigebond.com
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