Helping People-Pleasers Navigate Non-Monogamy
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You want to feel more connected to your partner
and more secure when opening up your relationship.
…but right now you feel
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Exhausted
from the constant panic about fears of your partner leaving you.
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Confused
about how to navigate ethical non-monogamy leaving you cautious about new experiences
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Jealous
and it’s destroying your relationships
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Wondering
if you’ll go another sleepless night questioning if you are good enough
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Unsure and Conflicted
about all the changes happening in your open relationship but feel guilty for telling your partner
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Afraid
that one more argument because of jealousy might be the nail in the coffin of your relationship ☠️⚰️🪦
When you decided to explore non-monogamy, you never realized you had a jealousy monster waiting to destroy your relationship
You want to make non-monogamy work for you and your partner but you think:
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Why did I ever agree to this open relationship?
I thought I could handle it, but seeing my partner go on a date with someone else is tearing me apart.
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What if my partner likes their date better than me?
What if they leave me for them?
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When will these tornado of insecurities end?
I’m tired of the screaming, crying, and silent treatment.
I’m here to show you how to make consensual non-monogamy sustainable.
Welcome to your
Jealousy to Joy Journey
Buckle up buttercup, it’s time to make your open relationship thrive.
Ayyyyy glad you made it to the party! I’m Paige Bond (she/her)
I’m recognized as one of DatingAdvice.com’s best relationship coaches of 2023, and I help individuals, couples, and polycules feel joyful and secure with their partner(s).
I help insecure people-pleasers find confidence and fulfillment in their relationships by equipping them with the tools they need to feel more connected to the people they love.
I’ve been featured in various media outlets sharing my advice on improving relationships and navigating consensual non-monogamy, and sharing the knowledge I’ve gained from my experience as a licensed marriage therapist.
Something you should know about me is that I’m obsessed with love. Like, I grew up reading Nicholas Sparks and dreaming about the day I would find my “one true love.”
(Little did I realize - that was a fairytale, and love requires a bit more effort than singing to birds and waiting for love at first sight. AND love can look different than the mono-hetero-norm presented in media.)
And then…I cracked the code to a kickass relationship: it's all about keeping it real and finding a partner(s) who's ready to grow alongside you.
As a recovering people-pleaser, I know what it’s like to go against my own instincts just to please someone else.
I knew I couldn’t take it any longer…
…And that I couldn’t be the ONLY ONE going through this so I got my thinking cap on to crack the code.
Now I’m able to teach my clients how to balance the kind of relationship they want to create, while also making sure their needs are met.
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